March 28, 2005
News Register


Students, staff pay tribute to special women

By Victoria L. Childress
Contributing Writer

Exhibits in Gallery include photographs, food, poems and powerful words

The Celebration of Womanhood took place March 8 as students and faculty gathered in the Gallery giving tribute to mothers, grandmothers, and important women generally.

On display were exhibits and keepsake memorials of phenomenal women who changed lives by their mere presence and testimony of living.

Quinnet Momoh brought “Chi Chi,” a sweet snack, in memory of her grandmother. “It was her favorite snack, and she showed me how to make it,” she said.

Alhaja Adishetu Momah, Quinnet’s grandmother, was a Nigerian Princess born into a royal family. “She was a great cook and the palace loved her meals,” she said. Quinnet spoke very highly of her grandmother and spoke for family members, saying, “She loves her grandchildren.”

From Nigeria to right here in America, another awesome woman to be celebrated is Mildred Lope, the grandmother of North Lake student Orteca Nunley. “Strong, powerful, and inspirational” were the words Orteca used in her display to describe her grandmother. She also had some of her grandmother’s keepsakes on hand — candy and a cloth woven hanger — items that reminded Orteca of her.

“Everytime you change your clothes, it’s a new day,” said Orteca, reciting a saying that her grandmother instilled in her representing each day being a new day and that there is no repeating. She stressed the importance of her grandmother’s generosity and, how when everyone visited her, she would give away candy telling them, “Take more than one, baby, take more than one.”

Jean Mills, a nurse in the college’s Health Services office, paid tribute to her pastor’s wife, Annie Pearl Foster, with the words “I’m still here” displayed at her table.

“She is a praying woman of God and she will pray to the ‘depths of her soul,” said Mills proudly, describing Foster. “She survived breast cancer and believed in hope when all hope was gone.”

Both Mills and Foster support the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation and the American Cancer Society.

What makes Foster stand out in her faith is the fact that she suffered the cancer in 1971 when there were no support groups, and the technology wasn’t what it is today. She has two healthy sons, eight grandchildren, and members of her congregation who love her dearly.

A “Dedication to Mum” is a touching poem that Norbert Osamor wrote for his late mother, Nkechi Osamor from Nigeria. She was a “soldier and a winner,” he said, and he wrote the poem shortly after she passed.

“I just started to write ideas and I wrote it just the way I felt,” said Norbert, who insisted he was not a writer. You be the judge. (Norbert’s poem appears at right.) Nancee Ott and Joanne Stewart displayed their table in honor of the late Grace Hopper, who rose to the challenges of programming the first computers.

“This is a great woman who created the compiler for COBOL Coding and coined the term “bug,” said Nancee. “She was on the front page of a magazine at the time for recognition on some of her significant findings.”

Hopper was the only mathematician to have a war ship named after her, and she used one of the first computers, UNIVAC I, that predicted the 1952 presidential election, and was used by the military.

The annual Celebration of Womanhood event was sponsored by Student Programs and Resources (SPAR) in honor of March’s Women in History Month.

Norbert Osamor
Photo by Victoria L. Childress

Norbert Osamor, above, wrote the poem below about his late mother, Nkechi Osamor from Nigeria.

A Dedication to Mum

Do you remember those days, Mum ...
When I used to be under your breast?
When you carried me on your back?
When you washed my clothes?
When you dressed me up?
But gone are those days.

Do you remembers those days, Mum ...
When you pinched my ears?
When tears dropped from my eyes?
When you pet me?
And gave me my favorites?
But gone are those days.

Do you remember those days, Mum ...
When you took me by the hand and walked me to school?
When you spoon-fed me?
When you watched me play?
When you watched me grow?
Oh! Mum, do you hear me?
Are these things not sweet memories?
Or are you fast asleep?
But I will still go on ...

When you whispered things in my ears?
When you talked to me about being a man?
When you stood by me?
When you bought me things?
Oh! Gone are those days.

Since you traveled, oh! There have been great changes.
You should see your boy, oh!
He is all tough, he remembers all about being a man.
He is just doing fine.
He is comforting himself at the moment.
He has learned to be strong and calm.

I wish you could bring things on your way back.
In case you can’t, don’t worry.
I wish you could play the song, “Mama.”
I will see you when I get there.

Stay cool, be strong.

Norbert Osamor


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